Wednesday, September 30, 2015

Mai Châu Getaway

A common pattern seen in the textile shops around Mai Châu.

My first actual vacation in Vietnam was on Mayday, which as anyone who has lived in a formerly or currently communist or socialist country knows, is International Workers' Day (or: labor day). I've celebrated Mayday in Georgia (going to the amusement park in Kutaisi) and Hungary (pretty sure I stayed in my bed and ate frozen pizza) as well. We actually had two days off for this momentous occasion, my first national holiday since arriving during Tết and my last until September 4 (Independence day). So Lenna, another teacher at ILA and a good friend, her boyfriend Sam, and I decided to head up north to the mountains and rice farms for a night. I think we were all of the mind that anywhere that was quiet, green, and had good food would do. Although we had some bus issues, I think we would all agree that the Mai Châu district and Bản Lác 2, the village where we slept, was a pretty good choice.


We were lucky, we had two days of mostly beautiful weather. It rained heavily during the night and although we did get caught in it while out exploring the villages it actually ended being a welcome relief from the heat. The heat did factor into a minor ordeal we experienced on our second day in Mai Châu, but mostly it was great.

So we picked up our chartered bus at the travel agency in Old Quarter. It wasn't a grand Greyhound affair or anything, basically just a glorified mini-bus. It reminded of a very nice marshrutka, from my Georgia days. The bus dropped us off at a dusty crossroads. Thankfully we'd gotten the recommendation for our homestay from my old housemate Margaux, who gave us the phone number of our hostess. She came to meet us and led us to her house, which was at the end of a small dirt lane on which there were several other homestays and shops.

Our digs for the night! We slept upstairs, and we ate our meals and hung out in the evening/afternoon on the ground floor. The open air style makes a lot of sense considering the climate; the concrete floor in the shade of the second floor helps keep the first floor cool, and being up off the ground helps you catch a breeze at night. Plus, Xuan had fans and mosquito nets which kept things more or less comfortable.

Helpful infographic in our lady's house. Thank god she spoke English because her family and many of the surrounding villagers, she told me anyway, did not speak Vietnamese (of which we know only a little bit, anyway). Most people in our area were White Thai, at least according to Xuan, and speak Tai Dam, a language closer to Thai than Vietnamese although still apparently its own separate language.

Looking at the floor of the second floor of the house, roof of the open-air first floor. The floor was made from bamboo that has been cut open and flattened.

The mats laid over the bamboo floor, which made it, while still a little unnerving, a lot more comfortable to walk on.

Looking out at another house across the road from underneath the staircase, on the ground floor.

A good day for dogs to nap quietly in the shade.

Looking down the driveway towards the bathrooms/showers.

Looking across the street.

Welcome coffee! Much appreciated after a jostling 3ish hour bus ride up the mountains to get there.


Photos of Xuan's many visitors and experiences over the years. This was up in the sleeping area of the house. Really cool to look at.


Our accommodations!


I confess I was a little unnerved at first being able to see what our hosts were doing on the ground floor, through the floor. But bamboo is strong, guys. Super strong.




After we settled in we got some lunch from our hostess. A very big omelette, white rice, a plate of chicken, and sauteed morning glory. Simple but delicious, and it fortified us for the late afternoon bike ride to come!


This very expressive rooster joined us for lunch. On our way to get the bikes (from a house just down the road) we happened upon a new mother and her puppies chilling in the dirt, trying to keep cool and hide from the afternoon sun.









Obviously I took 5 million pictures.






As we set out on our bikes we encountered a roaming herd of cows, not in any real rush to be on one side of the road or the other, but rather just sort of mosey along in the middle of it. Again, reminded me of my Satsulukidzeo days.



When we were renting our bikes I noticed that Xuan was suiting up in the traditional Viet hat, nón lá, and a jacket to protect her skin from the sun. I didn't think anything of it until she grabbed a bike at which point I realized that she was accompanying us on this trip! This turned out to be great for us as she was able to tell us a little bit about the surrounding villages and farms and also guide us through the off-roading parts where we very well might have gotten lost on our own.



Emerald fields of rice.





Xuan riding ahead, tired of waiting for us to take our many, many pictures of the incredibly beautiful sights.




Sorry, girl! No way was I not stopping to document that.




Lenna, getting her fabric shopping game on.

More local textile shops.



I asked Lenna to grab this picture of me because I wanted to be part of but not the focus of this amazing sight. Riding through the fields was maybe my favorite part of this day, there was this strange cool breeze some off of the rice and these tiny paths were like a little balancing act for your bike tires. But there was green in every direction we looked and the mountains darkened from the same green at their bases to these deep, dark peaks far away and above our heads. It was stunning.



Afterwards we relaxed for a bit, then set out towards the bonfire and throbbing bass line to see what the youths of Ban Lac were up to.




A hopeful textile shop across the road that stayed open, lest someone decide they were in need of some late-night cloth/clothing shopping.



There was some kind of festival/party going on and here you can see some of the games these kids were playing. I can't say I fully remember how they worked or that I ever necessarily understood but everyone seemed to be having a pretty good time and they were fun to watch.





After we watched the games for a while we headed back to our homestay. On the road home we found this house where traditional Tai Dam dancers were giving a performance. We stayed and watched that for a while as well.



Thanks Google/Blogger, for taking all my photos and making a gif for me! I don't really know how that works but it's pretty cool.






Dance of the Tribbles. Kidding! I don't really know the names of these clothes or the dances, the best I can do is that Wikipedia says they have the "xoe" dance. I don't know more, sorry! They were very graceful and beautiful to watch, though. I did have to wonder about the women dancing around while wearing all that velvet. Must have been hot.

Later that night we had another feast and Xuan's family shared some of their honeycomb rice wine with us. It was surprisingly smooth and pretty damn good.



"It has special tasting. It is also has found to be useful with improving resistance, virility, diuretic, decrease weight, sedative, etc..."

A beetle Sam discovered wandering around our house.

Mosquito net view, bedtime.

And the next morning.


Breakfast was scrambled eggs, a block of bread, the customary chili sauce, and a small family of baby bananas.
  
Beyond adorable.

Lenna, the space-age daydream!

For our morning/early afternoon we decided to rent some scooters so we could go a little farther out of the village. This turned out to be fraught with peril. First problem: I've never ridden a scooter before. It took probably 45 minutes-an hour of my just trying to keep the bike upright and going straight before I really started to relax and enjoy riding it. But out in the mountains is a good place to learn, and it did get easier as we went along.


Vietnamese flags lining the highway. Optional or mandatory, I cannot say.




After we'd ridden out for maybe an hour or so the road was starting to get sort of bad and we'd seen enough of the mountains so we decided to turn back to visit a few more shops in the surrounding villages before our bus arrived to take us back to Hanoi. That was when Sam's bike ran out of gas. Although when we'd rented the bikes the people had assured us the tanks were full and that we had enough gas for about a 2 hour trip we were well under 2 hours when Sam's bike (on which Lenna was riding) ceased to function. So he grabbed mine and headed back to the last town we'd passed through to try and purchase some more.

The cursed machine.

Thank GOD Lenna and I both had fans with us, as even standing on the side of the road in the heat it was incredibly hot out while we waited. Sam probably took about 20 minutes or so (although it felt like 6 hours) but he did return with gas and were able to continue on our way, thankfully.


We made our more circuit through some of the shops, where I noticed traditional patterns used for stuffed animals as well as traditionally dressed Barbies, a favorite phenomena of mine that I have also observed in Chile and Georgia. Maybe I should be collecting these traditional Barbies?? Anyway, after that we headed back to our homestay to relax again and eat some lunch before our bus came to pick us up. We weren't exactly clear on where that would be happening and it showed up late but in the end it did arrive, doorside, and although we got a late start and that bus's cooling system left something to be desired we did get back at a fairly reasonable hour, despite...
  

...heat...


...rough roads...

...treacherous mountain turns (not to keep flogging a dead horse, but again, memories of Georgia...)...

  ...on the flip side, stunning views...

....and a bus that broke down within the damn city limits. I'm still not exactly sure what happened, it seemed like it was a flat tired or something that was happening under the bus. But you can imagine that after our technical difficulties with the motorbikes earlier that morning, waiting an extra hour and change for the damn bus to even show up, and having to stop at some random roadside shack so the drivers could have some tea (I am willing myself to believe it was tea and not beer), we were... underwhelmed.




An exciting end to an exciting retreat from the madness of Hanoi. It was much needed. I wish I could say it was enough to keep me totally sane between May and September, when I took my first actual vacation from work and relaxed for more than one day at a time, but I'm not making any promises. In any case, Lenna and Sam were great traveling companions, Xuan was a sweetheart and her place/food was lovely, and Mai Châu was beautiful.

Tuesday, September 29, 2015

Linh's Big, Rather Petite, Vietnamese Wedding

Saloon 1, where it all went down!

I'm not sure exactly what I was expecting when Linh, a nice staff member who works in the front office of our company (doing sales, essentially), invited my co-workers and me to her wedding. I'd heard tales of Vietnamese drinking, especially rượu cần, or rice wine, so I suppose I expected to see some of that. I did not, although it may have been a part of the smaller, immediate family affair to which I was not privy. I wasn't really sure about Vietnamese wedding traditions and actually spent a fair amount of time questioning other Vietnamese co-workers/researching online to figure out what kind of wedding present I was supposed to bring. In the end I went with money, because I figure you can never go wrong with that, and it seems to be the norm at most weddings. Here is the invitation Linh handed to me one afternoon:


It was beautiful! I tried to find an equally beautiful card to put the money in but was not very successful. I found one that was nice enough but looked a little bit like a drug store birthday card. It had some nice flowers on it, anyway.

The invitation also came with a goody bag full of swag. Most of it were Vietnamese treats that I did not really enjoy.
  

Google Translate tells me this is "cereal" or "bread crumb". I confess, dear reader, I did not taste test the bright green bread crumb. My bad.
    

  
Yep, did try this. Very sweet. Reminded me a little bit of halva, which was very popular in Georgia.
  
The betel nut, which I did kind of know has a big significance in the Vietnamese wedding and traditions. I remember from visiting the Ethnography museum (pictures to come!) that a lot of people chew on it and in some tribes in the north they use it to blacken their teeth.

   
These candies were nothing special, just tasted like slightly ineffective cough drops (you know, the kind that are more sugary than actually medicinal). But I loved the packaging.


I still have not drank any of this tea so I can't report on its quality. Again, I liked the packaging most of all.

Pretty cool invitation!

I think the most surprising part of the wedding for me was how quick it was. I did not attend the temple ceremony and only arrived around 7 or so for the reception, which was in a huge hall with a ton of people. All of Linh's work friends were assigned to a couple tables at the side of the room. The food came out within 15 minutes or so of my housemate/co-worker Dan and I arriving and then everyone was getting up to take pictures and leave about an hour later. 
  
Digging in to the lazy susan presented, family-style wedding meal. Lot of delicious vegetables, spring rolls, and almost every kind of meat you could want.

And some I did not. (I see you, shrimp.)

The front stage. Not sure if anything happened with this and maybe Dan and I just arrived late, but we did not see it used as anything but a backdrop. There was a bit of a dance floor towards the stage that also did not seem to get any use. On the right you can see the screen where a slideshow of pictures of Linh and her new hubby was playing on loop.

The hall, and a former co-worker, My. My worked in the teacher's room as part of the administrative staff. She's pretty great although she abandoned us for greener pastures (aka going back to school). Can't really fault her for that.


The place clearing out.

Dan being a jerk.
  

VERY unfortunate lighting situation, but still, our pictures with Linh. She looked really beautiful. You can see the front table with some gifts and pictures or her and her husband behind us.
  
Dan and the front office staff in front of the banquet hall.
   
 Dan, My and I ended up going for a beer just because I felt like I had spent time and energy to get dressed up (I even wore heels, I wasn't even in them long enough for my feet to start hurting!) and wanted to do something else before going home and returning to my pajamas. The hall looked lovely, as did Linh and her husband, and the food was great. I think I was mostly just surprised at the efficient and no-nonsense attitude of the actual reception. My best guess is that a lot more happens but that work acquaintances are probably not a part of it. Anyway, it was still a good time and I was thankful Linh invited us!